haris: thanks for understandin my post atleast partly.
Let me clear the remainin part which u cudnt understand. Islam doesnt allow men to force their wives for sex, btw it's a mutual thing wid both the persons consent. curses are for those women who dont wanna fulfil their husband's desires for some othr reasons. Nothin like they have to have sex even when they are not well by health. And u must know that Islam prohibits men from having sex wid their wives during menstruation.
they may not have pentration of sexual intercourse during menstration yet they have to still sexually satify their husband in otherways which is still sexual