*how do u dump a friend*
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jaQui
2015/08/28 03:28
How do u dump a friend? Do u just stop talkin to them? Cross the road when u see them, pretend not to see them when they wave at u? Pick a fight nd storm out? tell them u are dyin and then disappear after a few weeks and get someone to go pack up ur house? I am lookin for original ideas on how to dump a friend who has no more value to me... Its hard for me and very sad but i need to do it...smiley
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zugzwang
2015/08/28 03:41
jacki: How do u dump a friend? Do u just stop talkin to them? Cross the road when u see them, pretend not to see them when they wave at u? Pick a fight nd storm out? tell them u are dyin and then disappear after a few weeks and get someone to go pack up ur house? I am lookin for original ideas on how to dump a friend who has no more value to me... Its hard for me and very sad but i need to do it...smiley
y u think for 'his/her no value for you'? may be u ll be valueable 4 he/she.
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jaQui
2015/08/28 03:51
zugzwang: y u think for 'his/her no value for you'? may be u ll be valueable 4 he/she.
wow! Ur right swty, i never thought of it like thatsmiley But i still need to do it...
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Shiya
2015/08/28 04:23
No cmmnts
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SkY2k
2015/08/28 04:42
Just have a sit Down or Phone Convo...then... State Your Case and Tell him or Her Why the Friendship Is Ending and Remember Leave No Room For Debate...once it's over, it's over....
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saahir
2015/08/28 04:47
-shout- jack & jill went up a hill.
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saahir
2015/08/28 04:48
smileyjack & jill went up a hill.
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jaQui
2015/08/28 05:00
sky2k: Just have a sit Down or Phone Convo...then... State Your Case and Tell him or Her Why the Friendship Is Ending and Remember Leave No Room For Debate...once it's over, it's over....
i like this, straight forward to the point,..
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jaQui
2015/08/28 05:03
saahir: smileyjack & jill went up a hill.
jack trip jill smiley
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detrimentum
2015/08/28 05:41
honesty always work best. But kindness is always important. Tell them you need some space. That you need time without him or her and that you dont know for how long or if its permanent.
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Boet
2015/08/28 08:54
detrimentum: honesty always work best. But kindness is always important. Tell them you need some space. That you need time without him or her and that you dont know for how long or if its permanent.
This good advice. Don't burn your bridges. You may need that friend somewhere in future
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_dreamprince_
2015/08/28 09:14
just leave smiley
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Shiya
2015/08/28 09:38
I hate u :-@ ;-> sweety
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Shiya
2015/08/28 09:39
jacki: i like this, straight forward to the point,..
Huh
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BluFallon
2015/08/28 09:45
I don't dump real friend just like that for no big reason,maybe you and he/she is not really friends in the first place thats why you cant see he/she's value..
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jaQui
2015/08/28 12:15
Shiya: I hate u :-@ ;-> sweety
i love u sweetysmiley
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Robinhood
2015/08/28 13:21
I just leave
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NinthElement
2015/08/28 19:50
Well if they've done something to upset you then you should politely explain it to them so they have a chance to make amends, otherwise just let them drift away as friendships usually require some joint effort to maintain.
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jaQui
2015/08/29 07:41
Eeprom: its also quite a good way , of you wipe your bum with their hair smiley
Do u have hairsmiley
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bad-apple
2015/08/29 11:37
If u r dumping a person, that means you are not at friendship anymore.. say it to their face but also explain why it is like that..
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zugzwang
2015/08/29 18:10
sky2k: Just have a sit Down or Phone Convo...then... State Your Case and Tell him or Her Why the Friendship Is Ending and Remember Leave No Room For Debate...once it's over, it's over....
I agree.
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