The only thing in th world u can change ' is urself and tht makes all th difference in th world. REMEMBER: U cannot change what u dnt acknowlege. Here is how i see it: If ur life is like that of most ppl in th world, and in fact like mine used 2 be, u may be, whether u knw it or not, smooth out of control. It may not look that way 2 other ppl, but so much for appearances. We dont care about what others want for u right now, our focus has 2 be totally on what YOU want. Thr will be plenty of time 2 balance it all later. "Like th duck tht looks so smooth and graceful as it glides across th glassy pond, you're doing okay___ at a surface level. But think what that same duck is doing below th waterline. Its kicking an reaching, in a chaotic contrast to its seemingly effortless surface appearance." SUCH IS LIFE