Meri Awaaz Suno...!
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saahir
2018/01/16 09:46
Shadi hamari Indian society ka esa shabd jo har ldki aur ladke ko krni hi pdti hai....ladki jab 20 saal ki ho jaye to B's maa baap uski shadi ki chinta krne lgte....ek ldki k Kya sapne hote hai aaj Tak koi smj nhi paya ya fir yu kahe kbhi kisi ne janne ki koshish hi nhi ki...ek khilone ki tarah reh jati ldkiyo ki zindagi...ek esa khilona Jo na to kbhi bol skta aur na hi bhag sakta...ese hi agr koi ldki apne lye kadam uthati hai to wo galat hai....wo galat hai kyuki usne khud k lye awaaz uthayi....ldki jab pad likh KR Ghar baith jaye to uski shadi krwa do...ldki agr kamati ho to uski shadi krwa do...Matlab dono taraf se bas ldki hi pisti hai....Kyu ye samaj ek ldki ko chain se nhi jeene deta....kyu ldkiyo ko udne ka haq nhi hota...Kyu uske pankh kaat k use zameen pr rkh dia jata....sirf islye kyuki wo aurat hai aur aurat sirf Ghar sambhalti hai....ek ldki jab shadi krke dusre Ghar jati hai to Kyu ye samaj usko bahu bol k uska swagat krte hai...Kyu usko beti bol KR nhi apnaya jata....kyuki wo parayi hai....ye PARAYA shabd to ldkiyo ko janam dete hi mil jata....jab ldki maayke Mai rahe to wo parayi hai...aur jab sasural Mai rahe tab bhi wo parayi hai....  Ye Awaaz 2wap ki ek pyari seii sundar Ladki ki hai. Topic is composed by her, not by me. If she will permit, I will mention her name here .
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ABHIRAJ
2018/01/16 10:03
Isse pankh katna nhi khesate,maa baap se bada koi aur nhi ho sakta apni ladki ki parwaha karne wala..jab yehi ladki maa banegi to yeh bhi wohi karegi jo iski maa ne kiya ya socha hai.
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Barbiecute
2018/01/16 13:59
ABHIRAJ: Isse pankh katna nhi khesate,maa baap se bada koi aur nhi ho sakta apni ladki ki parwaha karne wala..jab yehi ladki maa banegi to yeh bhi wohi karegi jo iski maa ne kiya ya socha hai.
agr koi ldki zndgi Mai kuch bnna chahti hai... Independent hokr khud k sapne aur gharwalo k sapne pura krna chahti ho..to ismai galat Kya hai....kisi ko shadi k lye bolna chahiye lekin itna bhi pressurize mat kro k uska dum ghut jaye...wo jeena bhool Jaye aur apne sapne bhool Jaye...ye soch 19th century ki hai...
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KingFISHER
2018/01/16 17:19
ladki ko apne marji ce jeena uska haq Hai. haq pane k liye amm logoko jiyada hoshiar hona chahiye. sorry for weak Hindi.
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saahir
2018/01/16 17:26
KingFISHER: ladki ko apne marji ce jeena uska haq Hai. haq pane k liye amm logoko jiyada hoshiar hona chahiye. sorry for weak Hindi.
Aap bengoli mei bhi comment karsakte hain.
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ABHIRAJ
2018/01/17 03:15
Barbiecute: agr koi ldki zndgi Mai kuch bnna chahti hai... Independent hokr khud k sapne aur gharwalo k sapne pura krna chahti ho..to ismai galat Kya hai....kisi ko shadi k lye bolna chahiye lekin itna bhi pressurize mat kro k uska dum ghut jaye...wo jeena bhool Jaye aur apne sapne bhool Jaye...ye soch 19th century ki hai...
Thik kaha apne,ķarna chaheye apne sapne sakaar,lekin sath me yeh bhi khyal rahna chahiye ke hum kiskimat pr apne sapne pure kar rahe hai.woh kaam karne ka kya fayeda jiss se pariwar khush na ho..meri souch apke anusaar 19th century ya 15th century ki lge apko,lekin mera to yehi socbna hai koi bhi kaam ghar walo ko dukhi kárke nhi karna chahiye mera to yehi maana hai ji..
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Thapasya
2018/01/17 03:26
Yes,i agree with the reality of girls in India,but I dont think all girls r like this,u see some states of India like Kerala and some southern states, there are Woman empowerment...., girls are doing job and living their own life With after they choosing their life partner themselves irrespective of religions......(educate Girls and give freedom ...)
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selina
2018/01/17 16:28
be strong agar aisa hai to aapko strong hona chahiye ..kisiko to shuruaat karni hi hogi apne sapne pure karne ke liye ...jo khud ka saath nahi deta uska saath khuda bhi nahi deta ..
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saahir
2018/01/17 18:09
selina: be strong agar aisa hai to aapko strong hona chahiye ..kisiko to shuruaat karni hi hogi apne sapne pure karne ke liye ...jo khud ka saath nahi deta uska saath khuda bhi nahi deta ..
Don't worry my sweet sis, she is a strong girl. She will manage the situation wisely with patience..
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_vIsHaL_
2018/01/19 09:41
I think it is more important for a girl to decide what she want to do with her life, if she stops doing what she likes and sits ideal, her parents definately will start doing what they like -MARRIAGE. .!!It's like a war, no matter in the end you loose- but its on you when to drop your weapons..!! It's not just with girls- even boys are forced for marriage, only difference is boys are forced when they start earning good and girls are forced more when they are not earning...!! Mere vichar itne hi hai ki apne parents ko confidence mai lo..aur wo ek din ka kaam nahi hai..it will take days/months.. you will succeed in the end. .!! hamare vicharo ke beej daalne unke dimag mai..!! Note: These are just my opinions- Reality can be different. smiley Girls know better...!! Just be strong Girl. . never let you inner strength die or sacrifice. .!!
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Tweetums
2018/05/12 06:03
Sad truth of our society. Girls treated equally to boys, I think such a time will never come. Men cant treat other men as equals. Women cant treat other women as equals. So how can you have gender equality when each gender has its own unequal hierarchy system in place? There will be no equality. only inequality.
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saahir
2018/05/12 19:10
krack: Ye sab purane time se chala aa raha hai,,,bcoz of our Old traditions..Hai to yeh galat but we are following it till now !!!
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