What we are ultimately talking about is becoming a gentleman. Too many men didn’t have a strong male figure in their life when growing up to whom they looked for a good, manly foundation. Many men are trying to be too much like women or think manliness consists of vain delights and putting people down. Irrespective of what kind of man you are, good, bad, or indifferent, find a man you can look up to. It doesn’t even have to be a real person. It can be your dad or granddad, or it can be Dirk Pitt or Luke Skywalker. Pick a man that embodies the manly virtues which you are striving to train in yourself and try to be like him. Find a man that cares about how he looks and would stick any job interview. A man that knows how to look good, but doesn’t dwell on his looks. Hold yourself to a gentleman’s standard of thinking, talking, and acting. When a man decides to become a gentleman, his looks will show it – inside and out...