As an ugly woman, society (males and females) treat you as an outcast. I'm intelligent, a great sense of humor, kind, etc however most people recoil from me. You see, from the sociological p.o.v., People in general don't realize that they do treat people differently if they don't fit into the normal category (survival of the fittest) it's part of human nature and an instinct in the animal kingdom. if people do not like looking at you, they won't listen or pay attention to you so they really don't take time to get to know you. Also, people assume bc you're ugly, you have to be just as stupid. I'm a woman past the 1/2 century mark, not only was i unnattractive as a younger person, age has made me look more hideous. My own parents and family members have made me feel ostracized from them (oh yes, i was always treated differently from other members of family).. Although i have a college degree, I have always had a difficult time getting employment (you guessed it, i'm chronically under-employed). Ditto relationships, no one has ever pursued me for a relationship..People will say beauty is skin deep... fool's paradise. What do I look like? To summarize, people can only describe me as "that girl with the big nose". Oh, lets not stop there. My face is long and skinny (no cheek bones) and my nose occupies at least a third of my face. The width of my nose is wider than my mouth (my nose eclipses my mouth). My eyes are deep set and uneven (one side is lower than the other and rounder). At my age now the eyelids droop. Let's not stop there...I have Rosacea so my face is chronically red and bc of allergies my eyes are always red.... let's not stop there.... i have perpetual bags under my eyes that on most days look like I've been punched in both eyes.... wait, there's more..... my hair... I have that cotton head hair that only one in 1000 child is born with. It is baby fine and kinky and now it is gray! Oh by now you all are saying this and that can be fixed..... Hello, i'm allergic to hair dyes and cosmetics...can't do a darn thing. Now you all, go look at yourselves right now in the mirror and be thankful for what you have and be thankful for the people that love you. BTW, i'm all alone in this world, no family, friends or significant other. I'll be dead several days b4 anyone takes notice (no, i'm not suicidal). this is just the real-life world of the real ugly person....