If you are stuck in a relationship, you need to know because things can't stay the way they are. So are you stuck in to a Toxic relationship ? In the last few years there's actually been a revolution in our understanding of toxic relationships, and it's one that we had alot to do with developing. I'll make it real simple. A toxic relationship is one that hurts one or both people in it and that lacks the capacity to heal itself. How do you know that a relationship with a friend or family member is hurting you ? Its hurting you if it has any of these signs= "Can our relationship be saved" ? Good question !! and whats the answer ?= Couples usually seek us out of two reasons. The first reason is that they've gotten into the relationship equivalent of a head-on-collision. A big mess, alot of damage, alot of pain. Like when one discovers the other has done something behind their back and feels betrayed. Does your relationships work ? Either at the moment or in the past ?