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*how do u dump a friend*

jaQui · Aug 28, 2015 03:28 28 58 #Social
jaQui OP
Aug 28, 2015 03:28
How do u dump a friend? Do u just stop talkin to them? Cross the road when u see them, pretend not to see them when they wave at u? Pick a fight nd storm out? tell them u are dyin and then disappear after a few weeks and get someone to go pack up ur house? I am lookin for original ideas on how to dump a friend who has no more value to me... Its hard for me and very sad but i need to do it...smiley
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zugzwang
Aug 28, 2015 03:41
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jacki: How do u dump a friend? Do u just stop talkin to them? Cross the road when u see them, pretend not to see them when they wave at u? Pick a fight nd storm out? tell them u are dyin and then disappear after a few weeks and get someone to go pack up ur house? I am lookin for original ideas on how to dump a friend who has no more value to me... Its hard for me and very sad but i need to do it...smiley
y u think for 'his/her no value for you'? may be u ll be valueable 4 he/she.
jaQui OP
Aug 28, 2015 03:51
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zugzwang: y u think for 'his/her no value for you'? may be u ll be valueable 4 he/she.
wow! Ur right swty, i never thought of it like thatsmiley But i still need to do it...
Shiya
Aug 28, 2015 04:23
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No cmmnts
SkY2k
Aug 28, 2015 04:42
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Just have a sit Down or Phone Convo...then... State Your Case and Tell him or Her Why the Friendship Is Ending and Remember Leave No Room For Debate...once it's over, it's over....
saahir
Aug 28, 2015 04:47
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-shout- jack & jill went up a hill.
saahir
Aug 28, 2015 04:48
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smileyjack & jill went up a hill.
jaQui OP
Aug 28, 2015 05:00
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sky2k: Just have a sit Down or Phone Convo...then... State Your Case and Tell him or Her Why the Friendship Is Ending and Remember Leave No Room For Debate...once it's over, it's over....
i like this, straight forward to the point,..
jaQui OP
Aug 28, 2015 05:03
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saahir: smileyjack & jill went up a hill.
jack trip jill smiley
detrimentum
Aug 28, 2015 05:41
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honesty always work best. But kindness is always important. Tell them you need some space. That you need time without him or her and that you dont know for how long or if its permanent.
Boet
Aug 28, 2015 08:54
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detrimentum: honesty always work best. But kindness is always important. Tell them you need some space. That you need time without him or her and that you dont know for how long or if its permanent.
This good advice. Don't burn your bridges. You may need that friend somewhere in future
_dreamprince_
Aug 28, 2015 09:14
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just leave smiley
Shiya
Aug 28, 2015 09:38
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I hate u :-@ ;-> sweety
Shiya
Aug 28, 2015 09:39
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jacki: i like this, straight forward to the point,..
Huh
BluFallon
Aug 28, 2015 09:45
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I don't dump real friend just like that for no big reason,maybe you and he/she is not really friends in the first place thats why you cant see he/she's value..
jaQui OP
Aug 28, 2015 12:15
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Shiya: I hate u :-@ ;-> sweety
i love u sweetysmiley
Robinhood
Aug 28, 2015 13:21
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I just leave
NinthElement
Aug 28, 2015 19:50
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Well if they've done something to upset you then you should politely explain it to them so they have a chance to make amends, otherwise just let them drift away as friendships usually require some joint effort to maintain.
jaQui OP
Aug 29, 2015 07:41
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Eeprom: its also quite a good way , of you wipe your bum with their hair smiley
Do u have hairsmiley
bad-apple
Aug 29, 2015 11:37
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If u r dumping a person, that means you are not at friendship anymore.. say it to their face but also explain why it is like that..
zugzwang
Aug 29, 2015 18:10
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sky2k: Just have a sit Down or Phone Convo...then... State Your Case and Tell him or Her Why the Friendship Is Ending and Remember Leave No Room For Debate...once it's over, it's over....
I agree.
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