Yes exactly... I met someone but I couldnt trust that person. So... I found it not real love..

You are not wrong, but I still expect "romance, candle light dinner and walks along the beach" from my spouse in addition to "respect. compromise, care and trust." ... There is no rule that says if you have one you cannot have the other.

Real love also is not one sided in case you forgot .

Trust is the basement for Love

And when a person you trust lied to you? That trust takes a dive?