how much is to much?
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BlindBiker
2014/09/21 13:30
Hi everyone. I don't actually want to tell my whole sobby story, but I have to for you all o understand. 2010 I met someone, Linda, and she got me envolved into the motorcycle / biking scene. So, we started dating, she showed me places, took me to bike rallys, she really was an awsome woman. But like anything good, it has to have an ending. She passed away on the 20th of February last year. So as time went on I met someone new. I left my life, my friends and the biking scene behind in Richards Bay, and took a bus to Witbank where the new love stayed... It really was love at first sight, and we were very happy together. Then not to long after that, she dumped me, so I moved to my aunts here in Boksburg. 2 or 3 days after that she came and fetched me, and promissed she will never do it to me again. But now, 3 days ago she did the same thing to me again. And the excuse for leaving me is that she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore. Should I fight for her or not? What should I do?
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ladyme
2014/09/21 14:20
Hmmm when a woman tells you she doesn't love you anymore , you can work to rekindle the flame and win her back. But when a guy tells a woman "I don't love you anymore" that girl had better start packing Lolzz. Fight for her if she's worth fighting for .I said this cause it's you who knows this your gal better than me.
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ABHIRAJ
2014/09/21 14:50
Forget it..she dont have love for u..it will be good for nothing to fight for her...LOVE cant be gain by fighting...rest u knw better abt her.. Its ur choice now,do wht is gud 4 u
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BlindBiker
2014/09/21 16:44
Ok, thanks... Well I came to a decision. First have to sort my life out, and I expect of her to do the same, we then can start visiting each other if that's still what we both want, and then at a later stage move back in together again, but start a new page, and take baby steps if were going to do it again.
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Samuel099
2014/09/21 17:12
Best way is to move on, you find someone better than her....If she loves you,she will come back.... Aw i saw your new lover at the corner, so tonight don't sleep but rather pray the black text is not part of the answer smiley
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NinthElement
2015/01/13 21:20
BlindBiker: Ok, thanks... Well I came to a decision. First have to sort my life out, and I expect of her to do the same, we then can start visiting each other if that's still what we both want, and then at a later stage move back in together again, but start a new page, and take baby steps if were going to do it again.
No harm in fighting for what you want sometimes, at least you'll know you tried. smiley
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