Humans have the remakable ability to get exactly what they must have. But there is a difference between a "must" and "want". When you know what you want, and you want it badly enough, you'll find a way to get it. Motivation alone is not enough. If you have an idiot and you motivate him, now you have a motivated idiot. If you wish to find, you must search. Rarely does a good idea interrupt you. My suggestion would be walk away from the 90% who don't and join the 10% who do. Give a lecture to a thousand people. One walks out and says, i'm going to change my life. "Another one walks out with a yawn and says, "I've heard all this before." why is that? Why wouldn't both be affected the same way? Another mystery.