Sex life in 9ja Please hide my name and identity.....I'm a girl of 22yrs in a relationship with a guy I love very much for 3 years now, he is my first love and I have never cheated on him, he is aware of that becouse he always says he trust me with his life.... but the problem is he cheats on me to the extent that he doesn't give me attention atimes I have to beg for it, I complained and he told me that am not contented we got into quarrels and settle it with time. Recently he just called me and told me ow sowiee he his for bin A jack that I should please trust him again, he can't afford to loose me and I belived him and friends went well.we where suppose to travel together for a wedding which we have planned a month befor, all of A sudden he told me I shouldn't bother becouse I was a little bit ill during the time we where suppose to travel, he conviced me not to go due to my health and I understood him and he went alone, during his absence I wanted to use my opera and he has used it before to access his facebook account a longtime ago, thats how I got access to his account and I read his inbox, I saw a message he sent to his friend that he was going alone so he will be able to meet the girl, his friend was like why would he do such a thing that I don't deserve such after he told me he has changed, he told his friend that is his business, If he is my brother? and a lot of other messages to different girls. when he got back I didn't mention it to him, he just told me he met a girl and nothing happend between them but he showed me the girl picture I belived him and kept mute. while he was leaving my place he forgot his external hard drive with me, so I went thrugh it and I saw a picture of him and the girl kissing. Now the question is should I quit the relationship or foregive and forget as usuall. I love him so much and he says he loves me too thats why he always come. THIS WERE THE WORDS OF A GIRL IN PAIN. She needs advice. -doncle-