I think healthy communication is the key, it takes two for every fight and argue, but instead of saying who love whom more, or who did what in the past, rather take a look at what you did, at that very moment, and admit if it's your mistake,and do your best to make it up to your partner. You don't have to "win" in every argue, it's not about whos word is gonna be the final, couples shouldn't compete in relationship,but to understand each others and solve every problem in a quiet manner.

Wonderful topic indeed. Very much attached to my reality. In my case, my sweetheart and I are inevitably mischievious human beings when we get bored of too much peace we fight and argue. It happens and it grows only to stay alive for a couple of hours. We both know very well that no matter how big a fight occurs we can never be apart. We have seen storms already. Still holding each others hands. The most important thing is we never bring our egos in. We apologize and end it. In the end she says " it was fun, we had too much peace. I love you baby, i am sorry "

agree baby..

In relationship she makes me sick.

The problem which i see in the arguing with partner, is once you got on something than its very hard to get stop untill it reaches to the conclusion. To my experience it gets end on a "no-speak-math " for couple of days. Frankly speaking women seldom accept their mistakes ,men has to do so for his mistake (seldom there ain't no) and the partner,s(which occasionally occures ) in the end.. I have found a way to make an escape from such an situation , i used to say " babe we'd talk in the bed tonight ,i'm tired , i need get some rest now ". Believe me or try it when you speak about your bed or bed room and your being tirenessed things, women gets a positive change in thier behavioure! After all women are a eternal comfort made for men naturally, she reckoned her duty the least positive quality in them

Dear Amela, Relationships are fragile. Handle them with care. Be it with a friend, a partner, colleague anybody, its the same concept. Everybody is human and we all are more or less the same. According to me you change yourself to change others. Do not blame the other person in a relationship. Even if they are wrong you can change yourself to change them as you want them to be. Trust me, I implement all these And I think I am doing fine with the people around me. Be patient especially when the other person is not. If you wish to win you have to be better than the other person. You need to find out their weak point so pay attention and listen, in particular when they do some thing wrong. If the other person is a rival or a competitor take advantage of his/her weak point and make that your strong point you will definitely succeed over them. On the other hand, if the other person is family make them understand where they went wrong and help them over come their weakness. Forgiving is a very difficult task, but it does wonders. Lets say there was no mistake of yours and you are blamed for some thing you did not do. It is obvious to get all furious and think of getting back to them and teach them a lesson so that they dont repeat what they did. Now, if you shout at them or let them know their mistake in a rude way it wont work. Instead forgive them and forget that they have been mean to you. Be nice to them. Wait till they calm down and then they will actually realize and learn their mistake. If they dont the first time then go and talk to them softly when they are in a good mood and let them know your concern. Once you forgive forget what they did; no point in having grudges. Life is short and too precious to loose in hatred and revenge. to maintain a healthy relationship one must COMPROMISE!!! hope it helped. thanks

Yeah if one does not lower down things will never be the same.

Personal accountability for our own actions and decisions is a lost art regardless of gender. Owning up to the error and fixing the issue can be even more difficult because it requires swallowing ones pride. Pride is the problem. When someone can honestly look at themselves from an unbiased perspective, one truly sees how to best fix oneself. Sometimes the people that best help us are our loved ones. For whatever reason we always want to be the best/ perfect for those we care about most and because of the disagreement the reverse happens, we hurt them the most. Whoever is the guilty party needs to shutup, fess up, swallow their pride and fix it. Makes life so much easier and people will resent you less. People respect those who are confident enough to step up and say they screwed up and have enough integrity own up and change.

If you were to ask what is the hardest task in the world, u might think of s0me muscular feat, s0me acrobatic challenge, s0me ch0re to be d0ne on the battlefield or the playing field. Actually, however, there is n0thing which we find m0re ard0us than saying, "i was wr0ng".

Be n0t ashamed to c0nfess to ur partner or friend that u have been in the wr0ng. It is but owning what u need n0t be ashamed of-that u n0w have m0re sense than u had before, to see ur error, and m0re grace to correct it. Anyways, at the end of the day healthy relati0nship made u both a happy individual.

Its vry hard to accept once mstk wn love is lost

I hate the part where i talk coz i do it too mch n neva bckdown,bt hei changes neva hurt

Memorised in lone

yup ur ryt v shud understand each other n if 1 is arguin dn d othr shud keep quiet he or she shud nt let d argue goin on

my husbnd and i d0 have 0ur arguements.s0metimes im a bit stubb0rn.s0 he as t0 use f0rce t0 get me t0 d0 whats ryt.bt we c0mpr0mise.and we never g0 t0 bed angry thats d 0ne rule we live by

i know when to say im sorry because my wife still haves a hard time believing me when i say im sorry.

Couples can argue, aslong as they still respect one another.