If ur kid is struglin focus on the effort being made instead of simply sayin' ths is nt gud enough'.Give a sense of progress 2 ur kids constantly.Praise ur kid if they were kind 2 sum1 or acknowledge if they remember a msg 2 u or where u left ur car keys.Tell ur kid if u think they r reliable.Talk 2 ur kid bout a tym that u felt sad or nervous n how u overcame it.PARENTS NEED 2 B POSITIVE ROLE MODELS 4 THEIR CHILDREN!!!