When we make a mistake, we say that it just happened., yet when someone else makes a similar mistake, we see an intention behind it.. We think they did it on purpose.. We are not seeing the person clearly, as they are.. Se behind the words.. The person is experiencing some stress, some tension and because of that, he/she is committing a mistake,, it is coming out of him in a particular pattern.. if you see others mistakes in this way, you will not get disturbed.; You will feel compassion....