Relationship turn offs can be different for each person but here are some common ones to watch out for. >1. Dont rush the relationship, take it as it comes, moving too fast can be a big turn off. For girls, men who want to jump into bed on the first date can be a turn off and for men, women who think they are in a full on dating situation after the first date can send a man running. >2. For Men, when girls are only interested in what sort of place they are going to take them, wanting them to spend big dollars straight away, can be a turn off. >3. For Women, when a guy appears cheap and doesnt want to spend anything, that can be a indication of what they are going to be like, and a girl likes to be spoilt now and again. >4. For girls and guys, when someone is only interested in themselves, big turn off. >5. People who dont take the effort to look good and dont care about their appearance can be an indication of how they feel about themselves and it may not be good! Think about the things you like to see in others and then do a check list to make sure that you have the qualities that you want to attract in a partner.