If a man is angry, his mind is beclouded, hence he fails to see certain imminent danger. Let me share with my experienced. I remember an advice of wisdom which my gradpa used to tell me whenever my father and I visited them in their h0me located nearby the seashore. At times when gigantic sea waves were galloping ruthlessly towards the sea wall, producing a thunderous, howling, and threatening sound, as if challenging anything or anybody else that dares to oppose the sea, my grandpa said that n0body should go fishing or travel when the sea is cruel, because it is very risky and fatal; one should wait until the sea bec0mes calm, serene, and friendly before one attempts to travel, go swimming, or fishing; then it would be very safe for everybody. He explained: when a pers0n is outraged, perturbed, and fuming with anger, he bec0mes ruthless and violent, like the sea when it is cruel itself. Whereas when one is c0ol, tranquil, unruffled, and peaceful, one is composed, c0ngenial, and approachable. In this light, my grandpa gave me the m0st valuable cousel in my life: Don't attempt to solve your problems(be they pers0nal or familial) when you are angry, furious, or mad; and d0n't make decisi0ns when you are em0ti0nally upset or depressed; because at this time the mind is disturbed and c0nfused, and it is m0st likely that you will c0mmit big mistakes and make a wr0ng decisi0n. Wait until you have c0oled off, when the mind is lucid and peaceful. Your decisi0ns at this time would be reas0nable, judici0us, and prudent.
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