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outlaw: I'm not sure i agree with this part btw. I think feeding any kind of sexual urge in a safe legal way is the healthier way to keep it in check. Repressing said feeling is what leads to crime i think.
If repression was such a good idea, you'd think that all those countries with all those laws based around sexual repression (females must be fully clothed and such) would be rape-free safe havens for women. But we know it's actually the other way around.
Now rape is also a despicable crime. Yet so many adults have sexual urges centered around rape, and a lot of them feed these urges through consensual non-consent roleplay and shxt like that. We don't ask them to stop feeding those abnormal urges, do we?
Which I would agree with save for the "abnormal" bit that comes before urges. Normal means many things to many people but pedophilia is outside the realms of what is normal for most of society across cultural, religious and national boundries.
Comparing it to what is normal is like comparing apples and oranges, they're both edible fruits but beyond that point comparisons only serve to highlight just how different they are.
Abnormal urges are compulsive, you wouldn't advocate a cocaine addict cutting and snorting sherbet as part of his rehabilitation would you? No, because the most effective way to stop is to break from anything that contributes to that habit and feeds said compulsive urge.
Fantasies are just that, fantasies. They have little basis in reality. People may flirt with the idea of non-consensual themes in play but as with all things, reality and fantasy are worlds apart and they would not argue otherwise. Which is why they incorporate those themes into play but do not for instance place themselves in a situation where they can actually be raped or rape someone.