suicides why? by dellie 2015/03/27 15:46
Dont understand why people take their own lifes? my friends nephew took hisand i know wife left him and wouldnt let see kids that and she left him because losing his sight. but no reason he was selfish deprive his kids of a father. i know they feel i they cant go on.but life what you make of it. my niece reasonly took her own life .shed lot her oldest child through her own father shooting 7times. her mom died from drug and alchol real young.but eve then its no reason.i just dont understand. life is too short as it is! i dont understand?
Dont understand why people take their own lifes? my friends nephew took hisand i know wife left him and wouldnt let see kids that and she left him because losing his sight. but no reason he was selfish deprive his kids of a father. i know they feel i they cant go on.but life what you make of it. my niece reasonly took her own life .shed lot her oldest child through her own father shooting 7times. her mom died from drug and alchol real young.but eve then its no reason.i just dont understand. life is too short as it is! i dont understand?
dellie 2015/03/27 17:08
Sorry to hear that about grandfather.we just learn of nieces death . my brother inform us he found out her kids and other family members she died 4 months ago. we just findind out. her son abt. year broke her dads house and he shot him and killed him;Shot 7 times ;over kill.
Sorry to hear that about grandfather.we just learn of nieces death . my brother inform us he found out her kids and other family members she died 4 months ago. we just findind out. her son abt. year broke her dads house and he shot him and killed him;Shot 7 times ;over kill.
Kayli 2015/03/27 21:10
We will never know whats going on in thr minds. And how big thr problem was. But its still sad.
We will never know whats going on in thr minds. And how big thr problem was. But its still sad.
jaQui 2015/03/27 22:10
I have a friend, actually my best
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
I have a friend, actually my best
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
ABHIRAJ 2015/03/28 03:17
Its serious.. I dont knw why ppl ends thier life instead of facing..I think its jst coz its hard to live rather then to die..
Its serious.. I dont knw why ppl ends thier life instead of facing..I think its jst coz its hard to live rather then to die..
Dr.rahul 2015/03/28 05:49
Quote: jacki: I have a friend, actually my best
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
dont let her alone. Keep in touch with her, ask her to read religious books , go out and see the world , try to make her understand wht is lyf , how she can enjoy it , make her feel good , tell her good things abt her ... etc
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
even if not suicidal 
Dr.rahul 2015/03/30 15:39
Quote: Eeprom: well to an atheist as myself , such religious books mean nothing whatsoever id burn the whole lit of them as most wars and mass killings are related to one religion hating another,when really they all just a BIG bullshxt waste of time and a story some bored mentally deranged people's thought up thousands years ago ,youd be just as well going praying to a raddish growing in your garden ,atleast you'll get a little nutrition value
if eat it.
look I know you have no interest in reading religious books but let me tell you they give light to things which even science could nt give for e.g hinduism it is written in the books abt the nine planets in our solar system which science had jst discovered roughly a hundred or two hundred years before even the exact distance between sun and earth has been told and we have proofs they are all written ... I dnt know abt others bt hinduism teaches to respect each and every person cause we belive god resides in every particle of this world thats why we make statue of stones and pray before it if eat it.
ladyme 2015/03/31 23:20
I've always seen people who commit suicide as very selfish. What message are you trying to get across that you have to make those who care about you feel guilty all their lives by taking yours??? It's pure selfishness! Before you do such think of all those who would be hurt you are gone. If you got any conscience or even one oita of love in you, the last thing you should wanna do is " make another's life miserable with guilt. Don't deceive yourselves. Suicide isn't a thing of glory especially if you are not dying. You ain't no hero doing that
I've always seen people who commit suicide as very selfish. What message are you trying to get across that you have to make those who care about you feel guilty all their lives by taking yours??? It's pure selfishness! Before you do such think of all those who would be hurt you are gone. If you got any conscience or even one oita of love in you, the last thing you should wanna do is " make another's life miserable with guilt. Don't deceive yourselves. Suicide isn't a thing of glory especially if you are not dying. You ain't no hero doing that
Xiao Zen 2015/04/01 09:37
People live because the only alternative is death, death is not a pleasant thought to most and so we avoid it. When some people start to find life even more unpleasant a thought than death they begin to entertain the idea of suicide. Simple.
People live because the only alternative is death, death is not a pleasant thought to most and so we avoid it. When some people start to find life even more unpleasant a thought than death they begin to entertain the idea of suicide. Simple.
virago 2015/04/02 13:36
Tell her to consult a psychiatrist pronto. Depression can be pretty debilitating but there is treatment available. Accompany her to a doctor.
Quote: jacki: I have a friend, actually my best
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
Tell her to consult a psychiatrist pronto. Depression can be pretty debilitating but there is treatment available. Accompany her to a doctor.
detrimentum 2015/04/03 18:47
Because sometimes a person dies while their body doesn't... and they aren't strong enough to wait... I'm too stubborn for suicide. But I won't lie, the freedom of death is appealing.
Because sometimes a person dies while their body doesn't... and they aren't strong enough to wait... I'm too stubborn for suicide. But I won't lie, the freedom of death is appealing.
Boet 2015/04/04 01:30
Quote: jacki: I have a friend, actually my best
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
Give your friend as much support as you can. Quitely and sincerely okay? Hold her hand, dry her tears, but above all; give her a reason to smile, and even laugh again. Replace that dullness in the eye, with a sparkle that blinds your own
friend. She told me that her life was miserable, complicated, and full of disaster. Therefore, she likes to read books filled with disaster. She also told me that she would give up or commit suicide. What should I do?
I'm so shocked and I don't know
how to make a solution.
Boet 2015/04/04 01:35
Quote: ethereal: Because sometimes a person dies while their body doesn't... and they aren't strong enough to wait... I'm too stubborn for suicide. But I won't lie, the freedom of death is appealing.
We all have a cross to bear my sweet. Allways remember,however, there is ALLWAYS someone in more dire straits than yourself. Do not go that route Ethereal, please?
detrimentum 2015/04/04 07:54
What, no! Didn't mean that. Suicide never has a reason, there is always someone willing to listen, who cares. We are made to survive and overcome. just meant that death is freedom (which is why I don't agree with the death penalty), call me morbid not suicidal.
Quote: Boet: We all have a cross to bear my sweet. Allways remember,however, there is ALLWAYS someone in more dire straits than yourself. Do not go that route Ethereal, please?
What, no! Didn't mean that. Suicide never has a reason, there is always someone willing to listen, who cares. We are made to survive and overcome. just meant that death is freedom (which is why I don't agree with the death penalty), call me morbid not suicidal.
Tweetums 2015/04/04 16:05
Mostly pathetic weak individuals becauz they dont realise how strong they really are and how so easy it is to change their lives around and become better people.
Mostly pathetic weak individuals becauz they dont realise how strong they really are and how so easy it is to change their lives around and become better people.
ACIDized 2015/04/04 16:06
No one commits suicide for no reason. There is a point beyond which nothing seems bearable. When someone loves something (person, money, fame, addictions, materialistic possessions) so much that the loss of it results in depression.
It's a feeling of being hopeless and helplessness. Like nothing remains in life anymore. Thus depression is further intensified and suicide seems to be the only way out.
No one commits suicide for no reason. There is a point beyond which nothing seems bearable. When someone loves something (person, money, fame, addictions, materialistic possessions) so much that the loss of it results in depression.
It's a feeling of being hopeless and helplessness. Like nothing remains in life anymore. Thus depression is further intensified and suicide seems to be the only way out.
Thapasya 2015/04/05 08:16
Persons telling about suicide, immediately get counselling from a good psychiatrist, immediate counselling can help to improve the mindset of person suffer depression etc
Persons telling about suicide, immediately get counselling from a good psychiatrist, immediate counselling can help to improve the mindset of person suffer depression etc
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