*Singleness* by jaQui 2015/02/26 00:57
Many of us who have been single
for a long time just accepted
singleness, and moved on. If
happen, it happens. Another reason for being independent was to survive life. But once were in a
relationship, you need to let go of
some behaviors that could prove
challenging when you need to
operate as one. Will you be able to change and let go for the sake of LOVE...? .rose.
Many of us who have been single
for a long time just accepted
singleness, and moved on. If
happen, it happens. Another reason for being independent was to survive life. But once were in a
relationship, you need to let go of
some behaviors that could prove
challenging when you need to
operate as one. Will you be able to change and let go for the sake of LOVE...? .rose.
Boet 2015/02/26 01:04
Well, being single after being married, or in a relationship is surely challenging, yes. To adjust from previous expectancies, habits sharing, responsibilities, is not easy. Some can never adjust, and then latch onto the first available person crossing their paths. Most of the time with disastrous results!
Well, being single after being married, or in a relationship is surely challenging, yes. To adjust from previous expectancies, habits sharing, responsibilities, is not easy. Some can never adjust, and then latch onto the first available person crossing their paths. Most of the time with disastrous results!
jaQui 2015/02/26 01:14
Boet... I agree with you... Its not easy to change or to pretend that you have changed and in the end it was all for nothing,,, peanuts.
Love..
Boet... I agree with you... Its not easy to change or to pretend that you have changed and in the end it was all for nothing,,, peanuts.
Love..
_dreamprince_ 2015/02/26 01:43
Its good to be single ,we can enjoy the life more without any problems but love is more sweet
Its good to be single ,we can enjoy the life more without any problems but love is more sweet
jaQui 2015/02/26 01:46
Quote: _dreamprince_: Its good to be single ,we can enjoy the life more without any problems but love is more sweet
true, but love can become bitter sweet
Georginia 2015/02/26 11:51
I love being single. Feel free to do anything, its 'happy independence" for me -happy-
I love being single. Feel free to do anything, its 'happy independence" for me -happy-
Jollyman 2015/02/26 18:47
To be Single its ok doesnt matters lot bt once u are in relation n then get single,thts painfull.
To be Single its ok doesnt matters lot bt once u are in relation n then get single,thts painfull.
Xiao Zen 2015/02/27 08:56
Did you have specific behaviours in mind?
Quote: jacki: Many of us who have been single
for a long time just accepted
singleness, and moved on. If
happen, it happens. Another reason for being independent was to survive life. But once were in a
relationship, you need to let go of
some behaviors that could prove
challenging when you need to
operate as one. Will you be able to change and let go for the sake of LOVE...? .rose.
for a long time just accepted
singleness, and moved on. If
happen, it happens. Another reason for being independent was to survive life. But once were in a
relationship, you need to let go of
some behaviors that could prove
challenging when you need to
operate as one. Will you be able to change and let go for the sake of LOVE...? .rose.
Did you have specific behaviours in mind?
Xiao Zen 2015/02/27 09:38
Then I would say the question of whether or not to change would also depend on many things, no?
There are ways to remain individual within a relationship, in fact I would go as far as to say that ideally (although not many things work out ideally) the purpose of a relationship is to enhance both and not diminish either in any way.
Thus if it is a minor aspect, it can be sacrificed for the good of the relationship, whether one or both party/s chooses to or not remains a choice for the individual. A major aspect is harder to give up and is not necessarily the right choice. This is true for both parties but is most especially pertinent to women as it is taken for granted that we are obligated to.
Then I would say the question of whether or not to change would also depend on many things, no?
There are ways to remain individual within a relationship, in fact I would go as far as to say that ideally (although not many things work out ideally) the purpose of a relationship is to enhance both and not diminish either in any way.
Thus if it is a minor aspect, it can be sacrificed for the good of the relationship, whether one or both party/s chooses to or not remains a choice for the individual. A major aspect is harder to give up and is not necessarily the right choice. This is true for both parties but is most especially pertinent to women as it is taken for granted that we are obligated to.
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