Heart break (part one) by Durand 2015/01/14 11:22
PREVENTING HEART BREAK
Hurt and pain can come in many
different forms, but those thadifferent forms, but those that
come from a broken heart seem
to hurt us the most. There can bto hurt us the most. There can be
deep disappointment when
relationships don't work out.
Is it possible to date and not geIs it possible to date and not get
hurt? Certainly. Is there anythinhurt? Certainly. Is there anything
you can do to help prevenyou can do to help prevent
heartbreak? Yes. There are lots oheartbreak? Yes. There are lots of
things that you can do to helpthings that you can do to help.
However, you are never excluded
from heartbreak if you give your
heart to someone. The deeper thheart to someone. The deeper the
relationship, the greater the
potential for pain or joy.
You can avoid some heartache by
following these steps.
1) Don't pretend to like so1) Don't pretend to like something
you don't: If you hate smokers
don't date them. Many people ddon't date them. Many people do
this all the time. A person they arthis all the time. A person they are
interested in has a habit that theinterested in has a habit that they
find annoying but they will look
pass that for the sake of lovepass that for the sake of love.
Don't waste time trying to deaDon't waste time trying to deal
with something that you don't
want to. Sooner or later those
things that you hate they things that you hate they will
eventually kill your relationship.
2) Be You: Why do you have t2) Be You: Why do you have to
pretend you like football or operpretend you like football or opera
when you don't. Be who you are.
If you keep lying about who yoIf you keep lying about who you
are, the other person is actually iare, the other person is actually in
love or with someone that really
doesn't exist. Get to know you so
you can enjoy you. If you are
honest about who you are, the
person you are with is with you,
not a fantasy. Keep it real. Learn tnot a fantasy. Keep it real. Learn to
be happy with yourself. If a
person doesn't like who you are,
its no big deal. Why pretend tits no big deal. Why pretend to
please them. Besides, who please them. Besides, who wants
to be with a pretender!!!
3) If it feels wrong it is: This is se3) If it feels wrong it is: This is self
explanatory. But I will elaborate. If
you think he or she acts a littlyou think he or she acts a little
odd or crazy, you may want to
take into account your otake into account your own
judgement.. Trust your instincts
and don't let the lust monster takand don't let the lust monster take
over. Beauty is only skin deep. over. Beauty is only skin deep. A
handsome or pretty face is just ahandsome or pretty face is just as
deceptive as one you would call
unattractive.
4) Have your own life: Any time
you don't have your on life, yoyou don't have your on life, you
are likely to consume the life oare likely to consume the life of
another. This is important. If yoanother. This is important. If you
had a life when you met themhad a life when you met them,
keep it. You want to share with
your life with your mate, not
engulf theirs. Women arengulf theirs. Women are
notorious for becoming onnotorious for becoming one
literally in there relationshipsliterally in there relationships.
Some women want to be a part of
everything their husband oeverything their husband or
boyfriend does. Ladie
PREVENTING HEART BREAK
Hurt and pain can come in many
different forms, but those thadifferent forms, but those that
come from a broken heart seem
to hurt us the most. There can bto hurt us the most. There can be
deep disappointment when
relationships don't work out.
Is it possible to date and not geIs it possible to date and not get
hurt? Certainly. Is there anythinhurt? Certainly. Is there anything
you can do to help prevenyou can do to help prevent
heartbreak? Yes. There are lots oheartbreak? Yes. There are lots of
things that you can do to helpthings that you can do to help.
However, you are never excluded
from heartbreak if you give your
heart to someone. The deeper thheart to someone. The deeper the
relationship, the greater the
potential for pain or joy.
You can avoid some heartache by
following these steps.
1) Don't pretend to like so1) Don't pretend to like something
you don't: If you hate smokers
don't date them. Many people ddon't date them. Many people do
this all the time. A person they arthis all the time. A person they are
interested in has a habit that theinterested in has a habit that they
find annoying but they will look
pass that for the sake of lovepass that for the sake of love.
Don't waste time trying to deaDon't waste time trying to deal
with something that you don't
want to. Sooner or later those
things that you hate they things that you hate they will
eventually kill your relationship.
2) Be You: Why do you have t2) Be You: Why do you have to
pretend you like football or operpretend you like football or opera
when you don't. Be who you are.
If you keep lying about who yoIf you keep lying about who you
are, the other person is actually iare, the other person is actually in
love or with someone that really
doesn't exist. Get to know you so
you can enjoy you. If you are
honest about who you are, the
person you are with is with you,
not a fantasy. Keep it real. Learn tnot a fantasy. Keep it real. Learn to
be happy with yourself. If a
person doesn't like who you are,
its no big deal. Why pretend tits no big deal. Why pretend to
please them. Besides, who please them. Besides, who wants
to be with a pretender!!!
3) If it feels wrong it is: This is se3) If it feels wrong it is: This is self
explanatory. But I will elaborate. If
you think he or she acts a littlyou think he or she acts a little
odd or crazy, you may want to
take into account your otake into account your own
judgement.. Trust your instincts
and don't let the lust monster takand don't let the lust monster take
over. Beauty is only skin deep. over. Beauty is only skin deep. A
handsome or pretty face is just ahandsome or pretty face is just as
deceptive as one you would call
unattractive.
4) Have your own life: Any time
you don't have your on life, yoyou don't have your on life, you
are likely to consume the life oare likely to consume the life of
another. This is important. If yoanother. This is important. If you
had a life when you met themhad a life when you met them,
keep it. You want to share with
your life with your mate, not
engulf theirs. Women arengulf theirs. Women are
notorious for becoming onnotorious for becoming one
literally in there relationshipsliterally in there relationships.
Some women want to be a part of
everything their husband oeverything their husband or
boyfriend does. Ladie
Samuel099 2015/01/14 22:46
I caught him copying but hmmm. He was trying to change the words of the original content but he mixed it up.
-nana-. google > sorry i dont wanna give a link of this trash also dont wanna disgrace him. 98.6% does the same thing.
I caught him copying but hmmm. He was trying to change the words of the original content but he mixed it up.
-nana-. google > sorry i dont wanna give a link of this trash also dont wanna disgrace him. 98.6% does the same thing.
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