**** possesiveness *** by Fantasy 2013/11/14 21:37
when possesiveness enter in any relationship like frndship, love, bro , sister, mom, dad etc..
what is its effect. on relationship? ...
Lelsi 2013/11/14 23:36
Becoming possessive in the relationship will turn it into the one based on fear, jealousy and control. And at the end you may lose the people you love, or they will keep a distance from you. The point is to recognize why did your relationship turned into such, most commonly it is out of the fear of losing the loved one, or out of selfishness , when you don't want to share that person with anyone else..
KingFISHER 2013/11/15 02:13
Quote: Lelsi: Becoming possessive in the relationship will turn it into the one based on fear, jealousy and control. And at the end you may lose the people you love, or they will keep a distance from you. The point is to recognize why did your relationship turned into such, most commonly it is out of the fear of losing the loved one, or out of selfishness , when you don't want to share that person with anyone else..


I,m agreed with you sister.

_AArYaN_ 2013/11/15 03:18
ya also lelsi right nd nice topic thanks for sharing with us
Manjula_Sharma 2013/11/15 03:34
Quote: Lelsi: Becoming possessive in the relationship will turn it into the one based on fear, jealousy and control. And at the end you may lose the people you love, or they will keep a distance from you. The point is to recognize why did your relationship turned into such, most commonly it is out of the fear of losing the loved one, or out of selfishness , when you don't want to share that person with anyone else..

i agree with you

-LILY- 2013/11/15 04:42
i m also agree with lelsi
Fantasy 2013/11/15 05:10
Quote: princess_Suni: tht is bad.it can ruin the entire relatiionship.

by beheaving like own property ...

Fantasy 2013/11/15 05:13
Quote: Lelsi: Becoming possessive in the relationship will turn it into the one based on fear, jealousy and control. And at the end you may lose the people you love, or they will keep a distance from you. The point is to recognize why did your relationship turned into such, most commonly it is out of the fear of losing the loved one, or out of selfishness , when you don't want to share that person with anyone else..
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/smiley appropriate ans .. /smiley

_SnOwBoY_ 2013/11/15 06:04
When we love or care of someone truly, madly we are ought to become possessive about them. Its a human trait which we have inherited from Darwinian Apes. It is not a crime nor is it something to be ashamed of, if you are possessive for your partner. In fact, arelationship ceases to exist when you lose your possessiveness for someone you love. But just like every other thing in this world, excess of anything is bad./smiley

Quote: Fantasy: when possesiveness enter in any relationship like frndship, love, bro , sister, mom, dad etc.. what is its effect. on relationship? ...

saahir 2013/11/15 16:12
After Lelsi 's words thrz no place to write here anything more. In few words she has spoken every thing. I also agree.
Georginia 2013/11/15 18:00
Yes it will ruin the relationship cos of green monster of possessiveness.
Kayli 2015/05/12 21:22
Possesiveness is a very bad attitude.
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