teen violence at home by Kumz 2013/07/10 18:43
Violence has become a norm in some households. Between spouses, siblings, parents and children, etc. I wish to discuss about violence among teens in the home environment which eventually effects the community.
Violence has become a norm in some households. Between spouses, siblings, parents and children, etc. I wish to discuss about violence among teens in the home environment which eventually effects the community.
Kumz 2013/07/10 18:50
Many parents are busy trying to find ends meet by working most hours of the day. Leaving hardly any time to spend with their children. These parents have no time to teach their children the little lessons their parents thought them. The children end up learning those same lessons by "burning their fingers" so to say.
They turn to others for attention, drugs and other addictions. Video games full of violence. Falling into the wrong peer group. All because their parents were unable to advice them and warn them against such things.
Many parents are busy trying to find ends meet by working most hours of the day. Leaving hardly any time to spend with their children. These parents have no time to teach their children the little lessons their parents thought them. The children end up learning those same lessons by "burning their fingers" so to say.
They turn to others for attention, drugs and other addictions. Video games full of violence. Falling into the wrong peer group. All because their parents were unable to advice them and warn them against such things.
Kumz 2013/07/10 19:13
These children end up being very violent and uncontrollable teenagers. End up committing mass murders and shows violent behaviour in their home and community. And most of these teens have almost the same sad story... being Neglected as a child.
The sad part is, some parents find it rather convenient to simply buy the kids video games to keep them occupied while the parents go on with their own business. The games become the child's reality. And depending on the game, the child could either act violent in real life and be totally cut off from reality.
These children end up being very violent and uncontrollable teenagers. End up committing mass murders and shows violent behaviour in their home and community. And most of these teens have almost the same sad story... being Neglected as a child.
The sad part is, some parents find it rather convenient to simply buy the kids video games to keep them occupied while the parents go on with their own business. The games become the child's reality. And depending on the game, the child could either act violent in real life and be totally cut off from reality.
Kumz 2013/07/10 19:24
so whom do I blame? I blame parents and adults.
if you wish to have children, be ready to sacrifice certain things in your life. Children are not just pets. They need more than a hug and kiss which you give when you feel like it. They need more than just the meals you put on the table. They need love, unconditional love, attention, security, guidance, proper education, and so much more than most parents are ready to give.
so whom do I blame? I blame parents and adults.
if you wish to have children, be ready to sacrifice certain things in your life. Children are not just pets. They need more than a hug and kiss which you give when you feel like it. They need more than just the meals you put on the table. They need love, unconditional love, attention, security, guidance, proper education, and so much more than most parents are ready to give.
Kumz 2013/07/10 19:30
To reduce violence, treat your children with respect. Don't make them beg for it with a gun in their hands.
To reduce violence, show them love before they have to point a gun at your head and remind you about it.
Stop harassing your children for the slight mistake they made. They are only human, after all... little humans... They learn with their mistakes, not cz you hit them with your belt.
Love them... that's what they truly need, at the end of the day...
To reduce violence, treat your children with respect. Don't make them beg for it with a gun in their hands.
To reduce violence, show them love before they have to point a gun at your head and remind you about it.
Stop harassing your children for the slight mistake they made. They are only human, after all... little humans... They learn with their mistakes, not cz you hit them with your belt.
Love them... that's what they truly need, at the end of the day...
nneomaubi30 2013/07/15 07:25
violence is not only couse by our parents but also with us childrens,violence is couse be high demade in life;free life and un wanted layout in our communities
violence is not only couse by our parents but also with us childrens,violence is couse be high demade in life;free life and un wanted layout in our communities
nneomaubi30 2013/07/15 07:38
well some of us are poor while others are average rich,when u dont have accept that udont have not to stile bucouse in the couse ofdoing that it lead to dangerous outcome
well some of us are poor while others are average rich,when u dont have accept that udont have not to stile bucouse in the couse ofdoing that it lead to dangerous outcome
Kumz 2013/07/15 11:59
Quote: nneomaubi30: violence is not only couse by our parents but also with us childrens,violence is couse be high demade in life;free life and un wanted layout in our communities
I agree wholeheartedly.
nancylious 2013/08/06 12:47
voilence something's are cuz be parents who are so busy doing what there love doing best being inlove with there job,buying toy for their children nd game not know dat children fast nd they love asking qeusoting when there is no one to ask they do what they learn
voilence something's are cuz be parents who are so busy doing what there love doing best being inlove with there job,buying toy for their children nd game not know dat children fast nd they love asking qeusoting when there is no one to ask they do what they learn
nneomaubis_heart 2013/08/08 19:10
Quote: nneomaubi30: well some of us are poor while others are average rich,when u dont have accept that udont have not to stile bucouse in the couse ofdoing that it lead to dangerous outcome
i agree whole heartily dear.
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