WHY LOVE ALWAYS HURT

WHY LOVE ALWAYS HURT by COOLDUDE 2011/10/03 02:42
Dear Friends,
i really don't know how to start with but it was back in 2007 when first time i saw this girl. at a very first look, i got a crush on her. she looks so beautiful and gorgeous that i can't describe in words, she was a air-hostess. i tried talking to her but she was always surrounded by n-numbers of people but i got the chance to say hi, hello to her. it was November 13th 2008, the day when she left the organization and somehow i could managed to talk to her and asked for her cell no. she has given me and i started dropping sms to her inbox. As time moves, she became my good friend and started to share things with me. on October 9th, 2009, i couldn't stop myself to propose her, she asked me for sometime to think over it and finally she said yes to me on October 11th 2009. This is the period of my beautiful life , when she was with me believe me time moves like anything. Finally, after one year i.e. on anniversary she proposed me for marriage i wasn't ready bcoz i wasn't well establish i asked her for sometime to get settled and also to talk to my family members. in the meantime i went uk for higher studies and tried to get settled, but i think the situation demand was something else. i got the job in one of the biggest ngo in uk but due to some problem i have to quit and came back to India. it's almost 6 months that i am here in India and three days back she started avoiding me and started ignoring my calls and sms. i got to know from one of my mutual friend that in the first week of November she is getting engage with someone else, as her family wanted that she should marry soon. she did her best to say no to this but she is also helpless and in the morning when i called her and asked whats the issue then she told me everything. although i was well aware but just wanted to listen from her. when she confirmed about it. i really feel bad and hurt.

Major points to be notice
1- our religions are different.
2- i am not settled, and on what basis should i ask her to not to marry someone else.
3- i am the youngest member of my family and can't ask my parents that i want this because before me there are three more people in a row to get marry.
4- She is the eldest one in her family so her family forcing and pushing her like anything to get marry.
5- we can't run away else there will be a great fight in our families and for sure many people will looses their life because of us. her father is a Central Minister and my father is a Income tax commissioner, so you can also sense the political pressure on my relationship.

i am bloody helpless,, what to do and what not to,, already i am a high-per tension patient and since i heard about this i am in to great depression. i really don't know what to do and when in the morning she told me to move on i hurt like anything. really don't know what to do....