dad_ash: My parents told me 'though we were poor and each time we got an addition in the family ,made us severilly worry. But at the same time we used to feel as we're granted with an other treasure of pleasures! Though we were not able to bring up you as we were wishing to, you might had wakeup hungry but never slept without food. We were not able to get you new clothes and shoes evry month or year but you did not walk in the streets waring shabbies and bare feet. We used to share every thing with you. Infact we were living happilly hard time for our kids ''. . . Todays life is very busy, parents have to work hard to give their children a better life therefore children may be not much welcomed as before. . 0ne of my friends used to tell me ,who has 2kids, that if he didn't has kids, he thought what he would has been with out them. So everyone has their own mind upon kids.